더 여성스러운 방법 :부드러운 여성 여성의 18 가지 방법

Polarity Or Commonalities!

If you are not interested in wild intimacy, sexual depth and passion in your intimate relationship – then maybe a relationship with a strong masculine man isn’t for you.

This is because it is the strong feminine and masculine poles that create polarity, which contribute to feelings of attraction.

That’s fine – it’s just important for you to know that if all you want is an average, functioning relationship where you are both best friends, then being feminine may not matter at all – being a team player, getting the job done and being agreeable may be more important.

Sex Is Not The Ultimate Value You Can Give, Really!

Unless he has got it in his head that he just has to have physical sex with you and that will make everything great.

Connecting to him, putting connection above all else, sharing your feminine energy, accepting him, allowing him to be human is the real deal.

Giving him sex for the sake of not losing him is never what it is about.

다른 옵션이 없기 때문에 스스로 그렇게하지 마십시오. It causes stress and dishonesty in your body.

적어도 당신은 그와 섹스를하는 것이 무서워하다고 말합니다. 남성이 섹스 를 보는 방법에 대해 자세히 알아보십시오 .

그분이 당신을 돌보고, 당신을 숭배하고, 당신에게 깊이 헌신하고 싶어하는 모든 남성적인 사람 안에서.

Choose Connection, Not Sex To Honour Your Feminine Soul &Be ‘The One And Only’ To Him

It’s hard to become the ‘one and only’ if you guys have already been friends with benefits for a while, and then suddenly you want him to be your committed boyfriend with a soul to soul connection.

It’s possible to turn yourself from being the ‘one of many’ woman to being the one and only woman in his life. But it may not be easy. You also may or may not have that opportunity anymore.

To get to exclusive girlfriend status, be selective and avoid having sex out of fear that he will leave if you don’t.

This is honouring your own feminine soul.

Avoid having sex if one part of you wants to and the other part dreads the consequence.

대신 결과에 대한 두려움을 전달하십시오. You are more trustworthy and feminine this way.

Sex is still a thing you allow men access to. Unless you’ve already established trust, love and commitment with each other. Not being sexist or unfair to women here.

당신은 여자이고, 당신은 자궁이 있습니다. 남자는 그렇지 않습니다.

Sex means something to you, and it can mean absolutely nothing to men (unless you are their one and only).

많은 여성이 아닌 유일한 여성으로 나타나는 방법을 알고 싶습니까? Access my “Becoming His One &Only” program here .

It’s OK To Dream.

It’s OK if you dream of having a man so strong and masculine that you’re willing to travel the world with him, supporting his dream, allow him to order you around with love.

당신이 올바른 사람과 비밀리에 그것을 원한다는 것을 사랑하십시오. That’s what your feminine soul wants.

Give First

To add to your mate value, when you want something from a man – say, more of his time or more sensitivity, try offering that to him first.

Be able to offer what it is that you demand from him.

Pure generosity is anything but low value.

It’s one of the traits of a classy woman .

Simply think about what value you can add to him before you ask for more commitment and investment, so that you become deserving of that commitment.

Many women today are entitled.

Women who are entitled and think men owe them something proudly shout their ‘rules’ that “MEN should give” and “MEN are the providers”.

Yes, but that doesn’t mean they will provide for you.

It’s all about how you show up as a woman.

Who wants to feel taken advantage of?

What rich, masculine man would want to provide for an entitled woman?

This is one reason why we suggest that you have enough generous spirit to offer to pay specifically on the FIRST date, not the second or third or fourth date.

We’re not advocating that you ‘be the man’ or that you offer to pay for a lavish dinner on the first date.

Rather, we believe that if you offer from a genuine place to pay for the tea or coffee date, not only do you get to show up more classy and generous – you set yourself apart from all the others.

Be Loyal

Be so loyal it is painful. Men who have at least an average level of intelligence and value connection, absolutely value loyalty in a woman.

A loyal woman is feminine because to be feminine, you must honour your need for attachment to a man. And when you’re proud of being attached, more of your natural softness, vulnerability and femininity will show.

Loyalty is something I am convinced that men are primed to look out for in a woman, because they don't bear children, and therefore can't know if children are theirs or not – unless they find and choose a loyal woman.

This means that you don’t try to ‘date like men do’ by engaging in ‘rotational dating’ which can be low value.

(No, I’m not suggesting you should only date ONE man – read the article above to understand).

Too Much Defensiveness; It’s Not Good

Yes, objectively speaking, defensiveness serves a purpose, but it doesn’t always go well with love and connection.

It’s hard not to be defensive if you’re an insecurely attached, insecure or fearful person – but the point is to try our best to practice feeling deeper and breathing instead.

When all else fails in your relationship, remember to put connection first.

Of course, not all relationships deserve you putting connection first – especially when you’ve tried to do that – when you’ve tried to connect soul to soul with him repeatedly, and he still treats you poorly.

To understand if you’re in a healthy relationship that’s worth your time, I wrote this article for you on the 10 Ultimate Signs of A Healthy Relationship.

Smile Openly When You Feel Like It

Smile genuinely. If you smile when you’re already in your feminine, this will enhance the joy and the happiness men feel around you.

You will enliven their hearts and put joy, hope, life and happiness into their dry masculine world.

This is not to say that if you don’t smile you’re “masculine”. This is to say that when you’re in your feminine energy, sharing a genuine smile can show your feminine openness to men and add to your value.

Interestingly, research shows that the more a man smiles, the less dominant women perceive him to be. Dominance is connected to masculine energy.

Of course, a smile is also attractive on a dominant masculine man, if it’s genuine. Because it makes him approachable and even endearing.

But if men smile all the time for the sake of smiling, that just doesn’t feel quite right.

퀴즈 시간 :당신은 당신의 여성 에너지에 진정으로 살고 있습니까?

Appreciate Men As They Are

Yes, if you want to be in your divine feminine energy, appreciate men. 그렇게 간단합니다.

If you want to be a woman of value to men, appreciate men.

The masculine enjoys being appreciated, even if appreciating him doesn’t appear to give you what you want right this moment.

This doesn’t mean having a bunch of rules for them and how they should be and what they ought to be doing for you.

It means accepting them as they are and being curious about how masculine energy can be experienced by men.

It means accepting that masculinity doesn’t always show up in the way you wish it would.
For example, some men experience their masculinity through playing video games. Playing video games doesn’t mean they’re feminine (yes that’s right!).

It means they like to experience winning and losing.

Many video games help men connect to their masculine core.

Sometimes, yes, playing video means they want to escape life. Which is why a lot of women find the habit of playing video games annoying.

But playing video games can still mean that they want to get back to their masculine core!

Having judgements about it won’t create polarity or connection in your relationship.

It will only create distance.

The Most Important Aspect Of Being Feminine In A Relationship…

Whatever strategies you want to use to connect to your divine feminine energy, remember that if it’s all too overwhelming, just start with freeing yourself and letting yourself truly FEEL.

If there’s one tip I have today to become more feminine, it is simply to feel. Just FEEL.

Begin valuing your feelings and valuing who you are.

If you cannot feel….all the pain, hurt, anger, ecstasy that has been pent up or held in for the sake of being accepted in our society, then you can never be free to be fully feminine.

Frequently Asked Questions About How To Be Feminine

What Is A Woman’s Feminine Energy?

It is who she is (and how she shows up to be) when she is no longer afraid of losing people’s approval.

I hope that you enjoyed this article and that you found it useful. If you have anything to say, please leave me a comment.

퀴즈 시간 :당신은 당신의 여성 에너지에 진정으로 살고 있습니까?

How Can I be More Feminine And Girly?

• Put a flower or ribbon in your hair and smile
• Wear a skirt or dress and enjoy wearing it
• Enjoy, appreciate and savour every moment of your life
• Be around other lovely feminine women who are emotionally healthy and enjoy their own femininity
• Develop your dark and light feminine energy to be whole.

How Can I Be More Feminine In A Relationship?

• Allow yourself to be influenced by a man’s masculine energy and masculine direction.
• Instead of being resentful or pushing a man away, try to express your desire to trust him and open up to him. (Trust can appear feminine and erotic to a masculine man).
• Use physical touch to connect and bring a man into the world of feminine sensation.
• Offer your nurturing and support.
• Role play with a man in different dark or light feminine roles (nurse, librarian for your light feminine side, mistress and sensualist/hedonist for dark feminine side)
• Allow him space to gradually develop his trustable authority and problem solving abilities in the relationship.

How Can A Woman Become Soft?

• Empty herself of old emotions, because it is only through a state of emptiness that you can rid your body of the stress that makes you hard and invulnerable.
• Choose soft and feminine friends to hang out with. If your friends are all tough and masculine, then you will become more masculine and hard. (Which there’s nothing wrong with. In fact, you need to develop your masculine in order to have a deep feminine nature, but if you always spend time with masculine people, you may end up hard.)

당신은 자신의 관심을 끌고 호기심을 불러 일으키고 당신이 말하는 모든 말에 매달릴 사람에게 말할 수 있습니다! (높은 베일이 아닌 방식으로 마법처럼 작동합니다!)

What Is A Feminine Girl?

She is a girl who is comfortable in her own skin. About 80-90% of women are born naturally more feminine. As such, what they need to do to be a feminine girl is to de-stress, stop approval seeking, stop wearing masks to cover their real femininity and relax into it.

What Traits Make A Woman Feminine?

• She is emotionally and physically responsive in a relationship.
• She is ok being vulnerable with a man and with people in general.
• She is capable of surrendering to masculine energy,
• She is not always trying to be right or perfect.
• She seeks to resonate with others
• She is driven by connection more than she is driven by significance in life, at least most of the time.
  

남성은 단순히 여성과 다르게 가치를 인식하기 때문에 여성이 모든 남성에게 낮은 가치로 인식되는 7 가지 일반적인 징후가 있습니다. 이 표시가 무엇인지, 그리고 전염병처럼 피하는 방법을 알고 있습니까? 이 특별 보고서를 다운로드하려면 여기를 클릭하십시오.

Is Feminine The Same As Female?

80%-90% of females are born with a more feminine essence. For these women, they are naturally more feminine, but they do not necessarily express it, or show up that way (because a lot of women hide their feminine energy out of fear).

So, having a feminine essence and being born female mostly does go hand in hand. But different women express and live in their feminine essence to varying degrees.

How Do I Become More Soft And Feminine?

Move away from being in your head into the world of sensations:

• Touch your lover gently
• Hold a baby and play with it
• Relax in a warm bath and bring the energy into your body
• Rub your body with moisturiser and appreciate how it feels as you do it
• Cry and release pent up stress and tension in your body.

Now over to you! What do you do to get in touch with your feminine energy?